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I'm not a dumb person, I'm actually smart (i graduated with honors) so i decided to take more step into it, i asked to study in a private school. Because of my achievements my tuition for one of the most known private school in my city gave a huge discount, me and my family are happy about that so they supported me, but lately I've noticed that when it comes to financial talk they always guilt me into why i begged to go to that school, they said tge transpo, money and utilities for school isn't cheap and now they'll have to suffer from it... I started thinking I'm burden and i know it's already too late to back down but their words didn't change. How should i cope with this, i kept crying every single night and thinking what I've done is not right and it's my fault if my family suffers.

back story of why i moved schools
in my previous school i was bullied a lot, i wasn't really bad looking but in ny country if you're different they'll treat you really bad, i always came home crying about what they've done... that's why i want to go to somewhere i think i can be me..

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